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Janice Marshall
IRS
8/10/1999

Thank you for contacting me. I must admit I was unaware that your mother had passed away and am very sorry to receive the news. It's strange how my thoughts just kept assuming that Annabelle would be in Honolulu whenever I returned for a visit. But life is very uncertain at best and I have lost several dear friends in the last few years; as they say, it's a sign of getting older. Just the same, it is hard to cope with the passage of time.

Let me tell you that I met your mother in the mid-80's, on her first trip to Los Angeles. She had been recently chosen as the new International Specialist in Hawaii. This was a new job that she was very proud to be selected to do. She came to Los Angeles for our group meeting and her first phase of training. She was very apprehensive because she would be the only international specialist so far from the rest of us on the mainland.

I had been doing this work since 1983 and was well aware that it takes a year or two to get used to the vast amount of information required to perform the work. I remember telling her that she would be in "shell shock" for at least a year or so. I told her that she should not worry because we would all be available to help her or find someone who could. Well, she did just fine. From time to time we contacted each other on issues. I helped her; she helped me. And I got to see her when she returned to Los Angeles for additional training.

As you mentioned in your letter, your mom was very kind, loving, and hardworking. I had the opportunity to experience her kindness in the late 80's when I visited Honolulu on a Job. She met me for lunch and later arranged to have no less than the Branch Chief take us on a drive around Diamond Head. It was breathtaking. I remember her giggling about the wondrous things Hawaii had to offer. How pleased and proud she was to show off such beauty.

Later I made a second trip to Honolulu with a girlfriend to soak up the sun. Your momma was so kind. She insisted that she and your Dad take both of us ladies out for dinner. I can still remember the evening breeze blowing wildly on a truly picture perfect evening. Again she was happy and so exuberant about her home. It was such a great experience for me. And she was so kind.

Around 1989-90, I began planning to relocate from Los Angeles to Atlanta, Georgia. I had family there and wanted to be closer to them. I had had difficulty arranging the transfer. She was very supportive and even introduced me to several people whom she fek could be of assistance. She didn't have to do that. She didn't have to take the time or bother. But she did. That was the kind and generous nature she had.

I finally achieved my job transfer in 1993. Since that time I have not been back to Los Angeles or to Hawaii, although I think of it very often with fond memories made better by Annabelle's kindness and generosity. I have been sending Christmas cards but not regularly the last few years. That's probably why we got out of touch. But I did tell her that there was a standing invitation to visit and stay with me in Atlanta if she made it here. And that is why my thoughts kept telling me that she would be there the next time I went to Hawaii. Because once you make a good friend they are always there for you even if you are not constantly in touch.

I will always think of Annabelle when I think of Hawaii or see ads or pictures of Waikiki or Diamond Head. I will remember it as a place where I have a wonderful friend and I'll see her smiling and laughing with the wind blowing in her hair. It's a good memory and I feel very fortunate.

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